And this is what I absolutely love about you, Emily. And for those of you who haven't listened to the Crystal Water Experience podcast before, I bring you non-mainstream information that perhaps you really want to know about, and it's becoming more and more... Non-mainstream is becoming more and more mainstream, so this is another example of that, and this woman's brilliant work, and the work that we're gonna do today together I think is gonna really inspire you.

And you're like a busy mom, you told me about your daughter and the singing career. You've got all of this going on, and you're really let's get stuff done." But you also have this calm demeanor about you. You have a very regulated nervous system is the best way to describe how you come across to me.

So why don't you tell us a bit about what you were doing there at that show and a little bit about yourself? I had a stand there because Philly, I sent Philly my oracle cards. I actually spoke to Philly about four years ago about my work that I do with fertility help women to fall pregnant that have been told they will not have babies.

I, my mum was a medium, so as a child it was very natural for me to go down the spiritual route. I home schooled my children for the last 11 years. All my kids- Wow ... have been taken out of school. I always say I did it before it was cool. Amazing. Yeah, so I've just been on this journey a long time.

I started off with massage, body massage. When I was 19, I worked on cruise ships, and I realized that I could tune into people spiritually. I would have a stranger there, giving them a back massage, and I'd get information for them, and I didn't know where that information came from. I read quite a lot of s- quite intense books when I was very young.

You kn- you know, as you was doing the massage, when you were in, in different parts of the body, would... Did you subsequently find out that what you were picking up related to the part of the body and things like that? Yes. Definitely. There's a correlation, right? Yeah. I quite often feel that emotion, and then as, as I've gone on to teach, that's how I teach now. I teach my students to, if they're working with the liver, then we'll get heat coming. We might be feeling the need to express, help them to express anger. The gallbladder, I always talk about the gallbladder as hardened feelings.

But the fascia I've worked... I work with the breath, I work with speaking into the organs, absolutely. We work with the mother line, so I talk about it as the conception, opening up that conception portal or vessel, so clearing any blocks because if they're blocked here, they can't hear the book, the dreams, the ideas, the baby that wants to come in.

If we're blocked here, we can't fall in love with that book, that idea, that business plan, that baby that wants to come in, or if we're blocked in the womb, we can't birth it. So it's about clearing whatever's blocking them from birthing what they're here to give birth to, basically. And how do you find the medical establishment?

I've done I just set my intention that everyone is supportive and helpful. So I don't really see any issues. I've trained a lot of midwives, I've trained a lot of nurses, women that want to help women in different ways. So yeah, I- Yeah, but there's crossover, and there's some... Yeah, that's what I'm hoping really is that they can see I don't really understand it, but it seemed to benefit the person.

I'm gonna go see her first." I wanna make it so well known that it's like- How we think about going acupuncture, yeah or reflexology. It's quite mainstream now. So that's how I want it to be. Because I've helped women that have spent their whole life savings on medical treatments and still haven't fallen pregnant come and see me twice, and I've unlocked something, and they've fallen pregnant.

Could have saved them thousands of pounds, but not only that, all the invasive treatments, all the chemicals that have been put in, the toxins that were put in, the pressure that's put on their relationships as well. It, people don't know that there's a natural option and a really freaking good natural alternative.

And that's why all details for Emily, by the way, will be on this page. And whether it's for you, or you're a grandmother and your daughter's looking at this, or your daughter's friends, or you're a man and you know your daughter or your grandchildren, come on. We have to spread this information out.

This is the sort of stuff we should get taught at school- Absolutely ... but we probably get taught at the home schools. But we don't, do we? Yes. And that's why we're missing a trick, and that's the point of this podcast and your wonderful work. So thank you very much for everything you've been doing, especially being it's been for so long when I was nicely napping during that time.

Okay? And I don't know how people like you have managed to do it without going- Well- ... completely insane ... I feel like I, I just managed to wake up so many people, especially before COVID. I feel like- Violet, my youn- my youngest daughter's 17 and she's never had fluoride, as far as I know.

Yeah, we were, we were- Agree ... very horrified at the beginning. Yes, lovely. We were mainly horrified for about, I think, "What the fuck?" was our choice phrase. And now nothing surprises us. And then people have gone on to... actually I believe people went into fight, flight, or freeze at that point- Yes

Because for this to happen, we can't fiddle around the edges, right? It's going... It is happening anyway. And we are allowed to think big. And this is something that you just mentioned about your future self, and something that we're gonna talk about today. So everyone listen to this. I want you to have a little think whi- while we're going through this process and about me and Emily talking, about how big is your...

How big is your future? And by the way, not everybody has to have a big future. But if you do have something that you've developed or you're working with or, your job is to wake people up or be a connector, how big is that going to be? Because I thought about a word the other day about what I'm doing with my work with Crystal Water Experience, and I said, "This is gonna be a billion...

Boop boop. But really, what does that represent? Does- just because it's a billion-pound business, does that mean that I'm gonna be operating unscrupulously and just like I'm the billionaire with all the money? We could teach people how real business is done, how collaborating with smaller providers, how you use, you only have ethical networks of customers and suppliers, how everything is a win-win.

That, that word, we can flip, and I started thinking about that future. So from your perspective, Emily, when you're talking to people about the future, how- How much do you think people actually even think that their future is going to be great and wonderful? Oh my God, there's so much I can say here, but- God

So it's called the Magnetic Money Month, and it's just for women, right? And it's a 30-day challenge. And throughout that we deal with that, what you're saying there. Because as women, we've been taught that, first of all, it's it's not ladylike. It's when we're working with these healing abilities, who are we to take money for it?

All of these beliefs that we talked about earlier, which if you think about the word belief, it's got the word lie in it. So all of the lies that we've been tricking ourselves into. I designed that course for women that have got talents and gifts that are just giving them away for free or, they might have...

And the truth is, once we're in that frequency, we are affecting everyone around us and empowering all the people around us. I want everyone to succeed. I want everyone to be abundant. Exactly. And you know- That's what that 30 days was about ... do you know what? And I said this to, to somebody, and they says, "Oh, yeah, but the dollar won't be around because this, that, and the other's happened."

And I was like this is how the mind control works," right? Because if you think that by m- me using that la- language, which is the only way I have in order to describe what that is now, this is a vibration. By billion pound business, this is the scale I've got in my head. It's a way of doing it. If you start breaking it down, "Oh, you can't use the word billion," and, "Oh, you can't use the word community 'cause that's a bubble," you're just literally creating a cage for your own things because you th- you think all of these things matter, and they don't.

Come on. It's always been this bad. Yeah. Yeah, I always say that's not on my fucking timeline. It's not on my timeline, love. Let's not limit us. So- So you were talking about the m- yeah, so this sounds like the, the billion, billion dollar, billion pound mindset or whatever needs to come back and so he can be reminded.

In a good way. So I think, like, when I do a lot of my future visioning stuff, which is why I've created my 10 Minute Tapping Club, I do a lot of walking meditations. So you're walking into that future version of you. It's the art of moving forward, while I'm telling you things to empower you and visualize.

Like you say, like we were saying earlier it's how much detail you put in. So I get you to smell what you tasting, what you drinking. Are are you cheers-ing glasses? What does that feel like? Who's around you? Who's proud of you? Who you gonna text first? What the colors, what the smells, what the textures.

So yeah, I think you're right. I think it's all about building that vision and bringing that into your body because the cells are listening all the time, aren't they? They're always listening. Meditation. Yeah. And I think that y- you are very good at bringing that out in people, making feel, people feel very good about themselves and positive.

Just because you're a billionaire it doesn't all of a sudden mean you go on a yacht with cocaine and hookers every weekend, right? It means though that you have created something so sustainable and that people value so much that it is being perpetuated. So what else can you perpetuate in that model?

I'd rather you be a billionaire, Emily- ... because you know what to do with the money. Yeah. Yeah, I agree. And that's what we do work on in that 30 days is, like, where y- where your beliefs come from. I get... I, every, so every day for 30 days I challenge you. I push your buttons- In a negative way at the beginning, so I'm getting you to think about what your childhood was like with money.

Who gave you those beliefs? What sort of stories do you pass on to your children? What are the phrases that you u- use? Money doesn't grow on trees. Like you say, rich people are mean. All of these kind of programs. So I get... I really push, push, push on, like, where they come from and deleting them.

We do little things like that. Okay. But yeah, so it's about clearing the programs. I talk about it like a filing cabinet, and I think that we can only have enough space for a certain amount of files. And if that filing cabinet is filled with these, "I'm not good enough, I'm not worthy," 'cause money and worth come in very close.

So all- if all of these files are filled with limiting beliefs that are holding us back, and we've all got 'em because it's what, we make decisions in limiting times in our life, and it's how well we supported as well as to how many files we've got. So we need to find the old files and delete them, and then put in a new file.

That's the way I see it, and there's not enough room for both. So- Yes ... another one of my oracle cards is digging for gold. So I talk about how we... If you're gonna pan for gold, you need to get your hands dirty, don't you? Yeah. You need to sift through all the dirt first, and this is the programs, until you find that little golden nugget.

or $20 worth of gold. So obviously it wasn't worth the dirt that it was. But he d- I don't think- ... he specifically got it from, I don't know. I'm I don't, can't remember. He didn't actually say that he got it from a specific place. He just said, "When you look, you'll find gold in very many things."

Yeah. It's just now this has sounded surprising to us, 'cause our programming was of people going with their panning things and all the stuff that we've been told, right? To say that it's scarce, and it's in certain places, and this, that, and the other. Now, I doubt anybody's been in their back garden and had a dig, have they?

About, about contracts. And it's like we're here, we contracted to be here. But when I thought about this very deeply, I realized no I made a contract with myself. I programmed myself. Not just this lifetime, but in other lifetimes. Yeah. And I need to stop doing that and remove them and c- and write the programs that are gonna get me to my future self.

So I wonder if we can do a bit of experiment for the people just having a little listen now, just to see how much, how much detail you can envisage the future. Yeah. And then if you're- Your details about the future are too vague and fuzzy- Yeah ... they need to go on your 10-minute tapping club-

And start unearthing that. Because unless you know- Digging gold ... what that is, you're gonna be following your past programs. Yeah. Yeah. I call it you can't sprinkle sugar on shit. That's a book I'm writing, and that's one of my cards as well. Because I always say we can say the positive affirmations, we can visualize, we can do all that, but unless we're gonna go get our hands dirty and deal with the shit underneath, it's just surface level bypassing, isn't it, really?

that means you know. So I can say, "Yeah, I know that." Yeah, I know that. But it, you don't feel... And when you know something, you literally... i, you feel it in different parts of your body, don't you? Yeah. Yeah. But let's say you feel it in your stomach, like around here. I know it 'cause it, there's a little jiggly feeling for me.

But ... And that's what you're brilliant at, is the clues that are in your body, like the little nose itches or the little... They're all clues, aren't they? Yeah. That's magical breadcrumbs. This is magical breadcrumbs. This is- I was told- how many podcasts are we gonna do, Emily, so we can get some of this out?

Whether it's the book you wanna write or the podcast you wanna get out or the baby that you wanna have or whatever, just visualize that version of you, and I want you to see yourself celebrating it. So I want you to see you've re- you've achieved it. For me, my books have got published, my cards are out there on the shelves everywhere.

I've achieved that goal. And how am I gonna celebrate? So I want you to see yourself celebrating, wherever you're celebrating. Oh, go on. Can I put my hand up, though? 'Cause I'm like devil for detail person. Do you, when you do this, do you think about specific other people that are gonna be there- Yeah ... or do you try- Okay.

Who's there? What are they wearing? What is the... Is there music playing? Are you in a restaurant? What is the s- what do the smells smell like? Is there... Are you clinking

glasses? Are you doing a cheers? I don't know. Is it some women are visualizing that picture, th- that scan photograph, or visualizing themselves decorating their baby's nursery, because everyone's visualizing different things. But whatever you're doing, I want you to see who's around, who's proud of you, who's helping you celebrate, what does it smell what does it taste what is the sounds going on.

And then I always get you to imagine you've got three dials on this dimmer switch. You're gonna turn it up to number one. You're gonna smell it, you're gonna taste it, you're gonna feel it. You're gonna feel like your heart is bursting through your chest with excitement and joy and love and laughter.

And then you're gonna turn it up to number three, and I want you to get really fucking excited about it, as you ch- turn it right up to number three. I want you to see colors that you couldn't even begin to explain, Jo, with the human vocabulary. I want you to feel joy like you couldn't even begin to explain.

And like I always say, see it, feel it, and get really fucking excited about it. And then just open your eyes. And this is one thing I get people to do. I want you just to imagine that if you could free- freeze-frame two seconds of that vision, just get it in your head. So it might be the clinking of glasses, it might be the hug, it might be the kiss that you get on your cheek.

It might be the... I don't know. You just freeze-frame two seconds, and then keep that two seconds on a loop in your mind. 'Cause you haven't got time to sit and m- think about that, visualize that. Yeah. But you have got time to think about that two seconds when you're on the toilet, when you're washing your hands, when you're doing the washing up, when you're getting the washing out of the machine.

two, three years. Look, I'm gonna go face. 'Cause I'm very ... Because the details matter, doesn't it? On the work- Yeah ... that you do, the details matter. And that's what I love about you, is like I'm gonna ... 'Cause you will say, y- you, and you're not just following a, a little book, are you? You're saying that- No

"You have to do this bit because this bit really matters." And I'm always listening to you because you're, you- you're really good at the detail. And- ... I'd say to people who find it difficult to visualize things, it's- you it's something you need to practice. Something you need to practice, and it's about awareness.

And that's why sometimes I get myself overexcited, because I've gone into future land more. There's a big, massive thanks to my friend Debs who started me on this journey. And I'll tell you why I wasn't so focused on it, it's because I saw so many kind of manifestation coaches. Ah, and they just, it just really did my head in, because they seemed to be only focused on the money and not about the holistic person.

And I think that kind of the riches comes with you walking your, having your soul mission, being aligned to who you are and authentic. Yes. And if you're not, don't do that, it all falls apart, right? Yeah. If I'm trying to find my card, you can't sprinkle sugar on shit, 'cause that's exactly what it's about.

I agree with you. It does my head in when people do these vision board workshops and, all of these things. But you've gotta make space in your filing cabinet. That's where you can't sprinkle sugar on shit. Like- ... I do that future visioning, but I do that at the end of some deep work first.

We've gotta do, we've gotta go in and clear the feelings that are blocking us from having that version l- of us. So yes, exactly that. It's not about, it's not about manifesting, it's about making space for the positive stuff after you've dealt with some of the yucky stuff. And it don't have to be really painful, and we can shift in just a thought, just a realization, just a just a conversation.

I'm hoping people are having that- Yeah ... that idea now because that's really what we want. Because we want people to co-create us this amazing reality and- ... realize we can observe what other th- people are doing, but please don't bring it into our timeline because- Yeah

otherwise it'll just be me and you and a few other people, Emily, having a wicked time- No ... while they're all on their- Finding your people. The doom and gloom. No that's another one of my cards. Sorry, I'm probably boring everyone with this. No. But I've I created these cards 'cause I had all these visions.

It's called Finding Your Tribe. I don't really have many people in my life that don't think like me. Because I've weeded out all the shit ones, or they've just fell away. It's another card, Life Laundry. When we get to a stage in our kind of journey, our frequency changes, and what isn't in alignment just kind of dissipates, and that's okay.

I've always had a problem- used to have a problem of going downstairs, and I knew something had happened. I was like, "When has this happened?" There's some I fell down a million flights of stairs in a past life. I can't figure out. I can go up, but I have to hold the banister all the way down.

I'm like, and I've been like this my whole life. And I was just walking through the woods, and I saw this little boy walking with his grandparents, and he was... He was probably only about two, just over one and a half, two, and he was running. And his grandma says, "Be careful, you'll fall." Yeah. And all of a sudden, boom.

It was just, oh my God, that's so stuck. Yeah. And it glued to me, and I was like, I had to look into that moment and s- see it for what it is not wicked mother or anything like that. And saying, "Why did you internal- why did you internalize all that?" And- Yeah ... be able to now see this with fun. And I catch myself going downstairs now without holding on, just with one hand.

I was like, "Oh, this is so stupid." So what you could do- I was very proud ... when that happens is talk to yourself like a five-year-old. Yeah, all right. Okay. So as you're walking down the stairs say, "Jo, it's okay, darling. You're g- you're safe. I'm here with you. Nothing bad's happened. We've never really fell down the stairs.

I found a picture. We're aging backwards, that's why. Okay. I found a picture of myself, and it was, like, my eighth birthday, and I was so shy and embarrassed and nervous of everything. Painfully shy. And that version of me, I loved to sing, but I never sang out loud because I was so shy.

And it was like, I wanted to go back, and I did this post saying, "If I could go back and sit with little Emily and have a chat with her," of course making me cry, I'd say to her, "Emily, you're gonna find your voice because you're gonna be a public speaker. You're gonna be a teacher. You've got three daughters that are all singers.

You're gonna find your voice. It's gonna be okay." So that's what I tend to do. I talk to myself a lot like a little child, because we are that. And I look at people like that. This is... I'm very trusting of people 'cause I see everyone as a child. Even when my husband's a pain in the arse sometimes, I look at him and I think, "Yeah, but he's just that little boy that was damaged, that didn't understand or didn't have anyone to explain things to him."

In fact, I think this is the world that we've- ... that has been created where we're in this. And the trick of this is to remove all of that and to see people for who they are, because especially like Gen X and even the boomer generations, we're the cycle breakers. Yeah. We're the people that can see that the people, however terrible the things that have been done to us or other people, it's because it's been done to them.

and our children deserve. Yeah. And I talk about it as if it's a fishbowl. Okay. So when I work with clients, I talk about their fishbowl water. A lot of people message me and say, "Oh, my daughter's really got anxiety, and could you help my other son?" Or whatever. And I always say, "No, mum, it starts with you, because you need to clear the water that they're swimming in."

And I just think it's really important to understand as a woman that you are the hub, whether you're a mom or a friend or a... so like we say, us working on ourselves and clearing that filing cabinet and clearing those limiting beliefs or those traumas that have happened to us, we're clearing the water that everyone else is swimming in around us.

So we are affecting everybody. The ripple effect is huge. So that's why I created that tapping club, because I'm like, a lot of women haven't got time. If I'd have... when my kids were young, God, I look, I will look back and I think, "I wish I could do it all again." I'd slow down. I'd enjoy them more.

I'd make more mess. I wouldn't give a shit about housework or going on a fucking diet. I was always obsessed with trying to keep slim. Just enjoy your kids, if I'd have been... and my d- my kids all did struggle. That's why I took them all out of school. But had I worked on myself a lot younger and cleared the water that they were swimming in, I didn't realize that my anxiety was affecting them so much.

The others in this lifetime at this time aren't powerful enough to do it. It's down to you. I say it stops with you. Stops with you. That's how powerful you are. Yeah. And when I recently I I get my past lives. I'll be just driving along or listening to a song, and all of a sudden it'll hit me like a PTSD slideshow with boom.

I'm like, "Holy moly." So I've had a couple of past life regressions, but I found out I don't need to. I get these flipping movies. Yeah. And what I found out in, in, in this one is that- I stepped into this lifetime saying I'm fed up of fighting the tyranny. I'm fed up of being burnt at the stake and all this kind of stuff , burnt at the stake, having people going, "I demand justice," 'cause I'm a very kind of just- justice driven person.

But then as I healed that part of me, realizing that I couldn't do it at that lifetime but I can do it now, I realized I didn't just heal my line, but him, all the people he interacted, even the people that he killed as part of that thing, even the person that killed him. Ev- all of those people that I'd annoyed in that lifetime 'cause I was so angry, and I was like, "Wow, this womb is powerful.

I didn't just clear one age. Look how much stuff I've just cleared." What a privilege and an honor to have that awareness and ability. I always say only the bravest of the brave do this work. Because we do have to, dredge through the stuff. The way I, when I work one-to-one, and sometimes in groups I get people to to clear a program, and sometimes there'll be people in there.

So I got her to have her grandad and her dad walk her down the aisle, and like we just did there, we felt the feelings, we saw the room, we made it really powerful. We put that back into her cells, and then days later, her dad, who didn't really have conversations that were quite open with her, just rang her and said, "Oh, by the way I don't hold a grudge about not walking you down the aisle."

That's how my work works all the time. It's insane. It's not real. For exactly that reason, but not only are we helping the people that are alive, we're helping the people that have passed, and when we're in a session, I get people to see the ripple effect of them- Working on that in this lifetime, but also, like you say, past lives.

And by the way to do this I needed some tapping. And this wasn't just... I'm just throwing this around. It wasn't easy. A- as in, if I hadn't have learned how to do it before, 'cause I'd been through this, past life kind of PTSD remembrance. I know I had to tap it out.

I am safe. I am loved. I'm here. So I had to go through the whole things, 'cause your... all your tears are coming out where all your programs are, and you have to have the wherewithal to know how to clear the stuff. Because as you're remembering it, it then goes into your nervous system and you just become a wreck.

I think it's very interesting what I found, but it's not attached to me anymore. It's a different, it's a different energy. Like- Because you cleared it from the body ... 'cause I cleared it from the body rather than it hanging around. That's it. And this is... Yeah, this is what I say to everyone. Once you learn EFT, you can use it in any way.

I honestly believe it saved my life for years. Oh. That and singing. I feel like we, in my house, we sing our way through stuff, and I tap my way through stuff. And it... And some of the things that have happened to me in my 40s have been really fucking hard, like the hardest years of my life.

But thank God I'd put in the work be- before, and thank God I knew how to tap, and thank God I'd surrounded myself with a tribe of women around me that, that could support me. Why am I telling you this? I've forgotten now, Jo. The issue is EFT. Oh, but the tapping. So you, yeah, because the body, sometimes I have clients come to see me and they're like, "Oh, I've been to see a counselor for six months or two years, and we go weekly."

Fascia, I work with the fascia, it's fascinating. I'm obsessed with talking about the fascia. If you, any fascia work, acupuncture reflexology, any body work you're having while you're dealing and you're talking about this stuff or expressing it, or even thinking it, like thinking it through.

You don't even have to say it out loud. Like you say, you can listen to a song. I always say to people if the song comes on the radio that makes you cry, maybe it's a funeral song or a breakup song, turn it up and tap." Use that time to work on yourself. The, we're constantly getting opportunities to grow.

And it's r- it's so rewarding, isn't it? Going through that process rather than the hiding process. Oh, thank you so much for that. Is there anything... Shall I put your website and everything in the notes section and whatever you've given me, your Instagram, I think- Yeah ... or your Facebook.

We'll put that there so people can find you. But what is your, what's your final words that you want to leave with people today?

I think just realizing how fucking powerful you are. That's why I created my cards, because I wanted women to just go every day, pull a card what do I need to know today? How can I improve? How can I up level? So just knowing how powerful you are, not getting sucked into believing that we don't have a choice.

Whereas if you're tuning into Radio Love FM, that's what we're giving out, but that's also what we're tuning into. So I would say- Tune into another thing. Tune into the weather. And that's where the good stuff is. So thank you so much for being on the show. It's an absolute honor to have you on. You definitely brighten my day.

... I feel a lot more energized, like bouncing off your energy, which is always so positive. You're brilliant at connecting people, so you need that. You just do everything out of, out of- ... love from the right place. Thank you. So I really encourage people to seek out your work and to get your cards.

Yeah, I always say leave them somewhere you're gonna see them every day, and then just ask for advice, and they always... Honestly, I get about 10 texts a day from people going, "Oh my God, that card was so spot on." "That's..." And I love it. It makes me so happy. Yeah, I'm gonna get the cards out. Yeah, you...

They can get you... Can they get them from you on your website, your cards? Or like that- I've got them on Amazon at the moment, which I don't really but I'm just a little bit of a nightmare with posting because I'm quite dyslexic. Yeah. So things like that are quite overwhelming to me. But I'm manifesting, when I do my visions, I'm manifesting having a publishing deal so that my cards can be out there for everyone to hold and use.

And I'm hope he- hopefully here we're giving you lots of support and ideas about how to make every day joyous and make this world a better place, 'cause that's exactly where we're going. So don't forget how important you are and how powerful you are, and it always starts with you. So we love you loads.

Thank you very much for listening to Crystal Water Experience Podcast, and I will speak to you guys next week. Thank you. See you later.